Don’t bother and listen to everyone’s words. If you get upset about unwanted comments from outsiders, you will suffer from mental turmoil. It is very important to keep a few things in mind to save yourself from it and at the same time develop some habits. Become your own friend.
Once you recognize your own abilities and inabilities, it won’t matter what people say or say! You know what you are doing and why you are doing it. Every person has his own shortcomings. There is pain. So whenever you make any comment regarding that don’t rub it on your face.
You will get answers to many questions. Setting boundaries is very important. You should understand your own weight. If someone goes out of line, he should be told what can be said and what can’t be said. If one does not understand his honor and dishonor, then no one else will either. If you hear about sadness, you should go away and do meditation. Calm the mind by taking deep breaths.
